I acquired a new sex partner last week. She is on the kinky side. More so then me. The last time I saw her was about 5days ago. During sex, right when I was finishing she grab me right at the base or root of the penis right behind my ball sack and curled her finger’s around the top of it. (How she managed that I don’t know. I didn’t think that was possible.) When she did I got a little harder then normal, and when I ejaculated I felt her finger nails pull on something. It felt kind of like pulling on a tendon with your finger and letting it roll off. Almost like a rubber band effect. If that makes any sense. There was no pain no snap or no pop. Just uncomfortable enough to make you say uh what was that. Right after that happened I slowly went soft like normal. The rest of the night everything was fine. When I went to work the next day I noticed that I had a tingling sensation around the genitalia area. The tingling is also on the right side of my abdomen just above the genitals. This tingling is not like pins and needles. It is more like what it feels like just before your arm falls asleep, Just before the pins and needles set in. Almost like very lightly dragging your finger down the inside of you thigh. This sensation is briefly worse when I lie down, or sit. Then the feeling will die down a little. I do feel a bit tender around the genitals. I do not notice any major swelling. Nor do I notice any blood pooling under the skin(at least it is not visible) though there is some slight discoloration around the genitalia . I have noticed that while limp or soft the penis is shorter then I normally see it. (Kind of like I just got out of a cold pool). I also have noticed that the tendons where the thigh meets the pelvis are a little sore. I also noticed that when I have to use the bathroom(whether I pee or sit on the toilet.) I have less come out. I have not had an erection sense then not even morning wood.(not that I have tried. Truthfully I’m a bit uneasy about trying) None of the symptoms I have noticed are painful, but more uncomfortable and consistent, enough to make you say something happened. This incident happened almost a week ago. And the symptoms haven’t got much worse. Nor have they subsided.