I have a redness on the head of my penis, family doctor has given me meds, cream and pills to help stop urine leakage ( I'm 64). The pills hurt my lower back terrible and the cream just hasn't worked... I took pill for over a month and had two tubes of cream and one (cream) in powder form. Nothing has helped. Redness is just on the head and around it, itches a little. Been a year come this July since it started.. Been to this doctor 4 times for help... Nothing has. What do I do?