I have an eight year old grandson who has always been close to myself and papa, my husband. Within the //last year mom and daddy have divorced and things have not been so good for the 3 children. Mom remarried within 3 months to someone who has been very aggressive with this child.. My grandson has been so ugly to me especially in the last 6 months. He will not take any orders from me because he tells me his mom said he did not have to. He calls me names and in the next voice tells me he loves me. He is very mean to his smaller sister who is 4 years of age. When by himself he is much better. I have had the privilege to babysit them this summer. I have to watch the little boy every minute if the baby is here. This is really bad. I feel like this needs to be addressed and I have spoken to my son about this matter. My question is where do you start to find help. I am the grandmother and the mother keeps telling my son I have no say so in this. What would you suggest be done in this situation? I certainly believe this child needs attention and where do we start. I hope you can supply me with some info or at least tell who I can contact. The child wants so much to live with dad and they have joint custody. Mother will not allow. Thanks