I think I have a Bartholins cyst. I have a lump near my vagina about the size of a grape. It doesn't hurt unless I touch it. It's not red or showing any signs of infection. You can barely notice it if you just look at it. I've done some research online. I'm getting mixed information on if I should go to the doctors or not. Most websites are saying wait to go unless it gets larger, puss comes out, or if it causes discomfort. What should I do?