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hi, i was trying to by some lube today but i couldnt find any in each of the 3 chemists i went to. i was too embarrassed to ask and ended up getting $20 of deoderent so it didnt look like i was stealing stuff. i was wondering if theres a certain spot they keep it, like under the counter or something. also, are warming lubes safe and what kind of reaction am i likely to get (im 16) thanks for your help
It is usual for men at your age to feel embarrassed to ask for sexual enhancement products and I suggest you to please not hesitate to ask help in finding things which can help you involve in safe sexual practices.
The lubes are most likely kept with condoms in the personal hygiene area.
Warming lubes are completely safe and you will get a slight warm feeling when the lubricant is applied on the skin of your penis. This happens because it contains chemicals which cause thermoception sense of warmth when it touches moist skin.
Please use condoms if you intend to have sex. This will protect both you and your partner. Apply small amount of lubricant to inside and outside of condom surface and most are meant for use with latex condoms only. Your partner can also apply it in the vagina. It will only give a feeling of warmness and that is normal. Non warming lubricants are also available. Always please read instructions on the package before using it.
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Is It Safe To Use Warming Lubes?
Hi, Thanks for writing in. It is usual for men at your age to feel embarrassed to ask for sexual enhancement products and I suggest you to please not hesitate to ask help in finding things which can help you involve in safe sexual practices. The lubes are most likely kept with condoms in the personal hygiene area. Warming lubes are completely safe and you will get a slight warm feeling when the lubricant is applied on the skin of your penis. This happens because it contains chemicals which cause thermoception sense of warmth when it touches moist skin. Please use condoms if you intend to have sex. This will protect both you and your partner. Apply small amount of lubricant to inside and outside of condom surface and most are meant for use with latex condoms only. Your partner can also apply it in the vagina. It will only give a feeling of warmness and that is normal. Non warming lubricants are also available. Always please read instructions on the package before using it.