hi.i am very concerned about my virginity because I had a boyfriend,but we didn t have sex(penetration),we only made it on the surface of my vagina,more like rubbing .now I m concerned because I feel a little bit open ,but there was never bleeding.i ve checked myself and I can t insert 2 fingers in my vagina,because it hurts,and with one finger seems like it s very thight inside.Please help,i don t know what to do,i want to go to a gynecologist but I m scared.. :(