Hey, so this is really stupid, and I m 99% sure I m just being paranoid, but I thought I d ask here just to be safe. I guess the question is, can pre-ejaculatory fluid on fingers lead to pregnancy? Well I know it technically CAN, but is it still statistically possible? I guess I should give a little back story. My romantic partner and I were fooling around , you could say. I gave him a hand job, since we are both fairly inexperienced, he demonstrated the best way we liked it. Then, some point later, he fingered me for a bit, but he mostly just rubbed my clitoris. However, his fingers were in my vaginal opening for a few seconds. I do remember there being pre cum at some point, but I do not remember if that was before or after he fingered me, or if it was before or after he demonstrated on himself. Either way, I know he rubbed his hands on my clothes so if there were any, it was probably rubbed off. Also, he did urinate after his prior ejaculation, and I ve heard that flushes out any remaining semen. That whole scenario was about a month ago. I haven t had my period since then, and the incident was about a week after my last period. However, my cycles have always been very long, the longest being two months. It is rare that it is 30 days or less. Also, I have been very stressed out lately, because of this and other reasons, so I know that definitely messes with your cycle. I m 18, haven t had intercourse (I think the term virgin is outdated and heteronormative), and that was the first time I had ever been fingered. I know the easiest way to ease my fears would be to buy a pregnancy test, but I m not in an easy position to do so, and I don t want to until absolutely necessary. If my period doesn t come by December 10th, that s when I will take one, because if the odds are against me, and I am pregnant, I still need enough time to arrange a medical abortion. So, can someone put my fears to rest?