Hi im 18 and Ive been having sex more recently now as i have a regular boyfriend. i almost always use a condom , but once a few days ago we started without using a condom , i eventually said about 10 minutes after and my boyfriend put a condom on, we had sex intensively for much longer than normal and the condom became very dry. i now have a very painful vagina , its sore and very very itchy , im trying not to itch it but its so uncomfortable. i have white discharge but nothing i dont normally get. i dont want to tell my parents what i have been up to as its not something we talk about and i really dont want to visit the doctor , is there anyway this is just irratation from the condom and will it go away on its own ?