My 21 years old son is out of control, he was in a accident at 14 and lost his adrial glad, 60 % of stomach,a kidney, part of his colon, intestines, 3 vertibras off his spinal cord, puctured pancrius and much more and stayed in hospital over 3 months. He did graduate but we know he has ADHD, and Post dramactic stress but he want take meds but i think??? he has started taking drugs like zanack and smoking pot and drinking and the worst mouth towards me, he still lives with us but he has no since of what a bill is but wants to move out with no money,just to get away, he has a 3 year old girl which we keep every weekend. Scared he is going to jail are get killed if he dont get help, and he want listen to us. Sometimes if he gets mad he dont even know what he says are does and somebody want know what he has been thru and just kill him not knowing. When you try to wake him up he curses and don't know you are even talking to him, and when you ask after he gets up he says you didnt wake me why and curses? My son is a good boy, but since the accident, he has no since of what he does, and says he wants to just blow his brains out if you try to talk to him and don't get his way. any suggestion for a young man of 21 are a mom that is going crazy worring and not much sleep.