My bf and I had what I call rough sex and a vibrator was inserted in my vagina along with his dick. About a day later when I peed it slightly hurt just about when the stream was done. I became swollen, itchy and red. Anal was not involved. And I'm not straining to have a bm nor was I constipated but I've had hemroids ever since. I have a small bump in between my vagina and rectum too. I thought I had a yeast infection so I used Monistat 1 ovule and cream which seemed to have cleared up redness swelling and itchiness . That spot is still there. I read up on cleaning down there with salty water and everything seems fine except for that spot. And my other question is can u have scar tissue around your outer vagina from having babies? I have a few there.they are not cauliflower looking so I know they r not warts. They look like skin flaps or tags