My daughter is 3 months old with an add and bad mod to LG sized. She went into heart failure at 10 days old. She's on capitol and basic and Santa. Getting feeds via ngt q 3 hr 60 ml 28 cal. Compressed over an he at this point. Her last echo showed some tricuspid valve tissue over the vsd. She still has a loud murmur and a thrill. She's had growing troubles started at 6 lb 1 oz and today is 9 lb 12 oz. They are holding off surgery at this time to see if she will heal by herself. Would you recommend a second opinion?