how long is too long to look at a woman. My guy makes it uncomfortable for me and the girl. Is this normal if It becomes OCD I feel my husband is OCD. With looking at other woman. It becomes uncomfortable for me and the girl he's staring at. He watches chic flicks, looks up from reading the paper to watch make-up commercials, and he admitted that he has this picture of a pretty girl that he goes and looks at 2-3x a week but doesn't have the desire to masterbate to it. We have a good sex life and he says he thinks we were destined for each other. He said its like a fix and It's not sexual. I feel that it's disresptful to the other woman and myself to make it so noticeable. I understand men are going to look but it should be descreet. Is this normal or a symtom of an underlying mental issue?