My husband is drinking a half gallon of vodka a day and is turning into an absolute jerk. is their anyway I can get him off of it or is it something he will have to stop doing on his own? and how do I get him to stop screaming at me in front of my daughter over stupid arguments he starts? How do I stop him from telling me he hates me and always has and wants a divorce? should I just leave? I hate getting treated like shit then being told I'm the problem and I'm being rude after coming forward and telling him I hate the way he is treating me. he basically says "i have been holding this stuff in for a wile and I'm not doing it anymore" but he only started acting like this in the last year. he wont listen to me and his 19year old son helps facilitate his vodka addiction by driving him to the store and picking vodka up for him. his son doesn't seem to think their is anything wrong with drinking a half a gallon of vodka everyday and supports his dads idea that I am the problem. I am at the end of my rope and I really just want this to stop. How do I get my husband to quit drinking? he started drinking after he became crippled and had to sell his pills to pay our house payment. is this just permanent? should I leave? because I'm miserable. he is never upset at his son just me. and the things he complains about me doing wrong are things nobody else in the world has ever cared about and he didn't care about till this past year when he started drinking a half gallon of vodka a day. he claims he is just fed up with it, the cleaning and the way I apparently interject into conversations he is having with his son in the living room. his son has never liked me and isn't helping the situation at all. I don't really know what to do. I have a three year old daughter with this man that has yelled at me and said he hates me in multiple arguments this year but he never says why he hates me aside from the house not being cleaned to his liking and me interjecting into conversations. the thing is he is always downstairs in the living room with his son and never hangs out with me at all. so when am I allowed to speak to him at all? all my life somebody interjecting into a conversation being held in the living room in the house I grew up in was no big deal and nobody was rude to the person interjecting. but they are both rude to me. I don't know what to do. I don't really have any drive to clean to his liking anymore and have stopped doing his clothes and my stepsons. I don't want to take care of a man that treats me like this and always says I'm the problem and that's why he is a jerk to me. How do I solve his addiction problem? is their any way to? should I just leave? how can he still be alive on a gallon of vodka a day and throwing up every morning? what do I do? I have to basically stay upstairs or they are both rude to me and treat me like shit. I'm not really welcome in my own living room anymore.