My husband will be 71 in Sept. He had some tests at the VA Hospital and they say he has a tumor in his bladder. He doesn't want to go in for the biopsy for fear that they will puncture the tumor and let cells out that will spread and cause more tumors or cancer. I am not going to convince him one way or the other, because I do not want to end up blaming myself for his death. Why don't they just go in and take the thing out instead of messing with it?