My significant other weighs over 300 pounds. She is always researching, trying diets with minimal success. Recently she told me it would really show I cared if the last thing I said to her before going to sleep was "Honey, what would you like for breakfast?" She said it did not mean I had to get up and prepare - although she has said she would like that. But it would show I really cared as I was thinking of her need to eat in the morning. I am from the north, she is from the south. I appreciate that culturally food has different meanings for us. BUT this request makes me question if her relationship with food is healthy or indicates a problem.