My sister and I are trying to get help for her son he is a function alcoholic. Has had for DWIs. Has not paid his house payment and 14 months. Uses a house money for alcohol. He is 32 years old has a good job but scared he's going to lose it. The last three weeks he's been calling his mom and dad crying for help and very toxic hated, and then the next day he says he's OK. My sister travel to Tulsa Oklahoma to be there for him this weekend and try to talk him in to get me some and in care treatment . We really don't know what or how to start. Need help please. Last night he drove a car being totally drunk. That's uncalled for and very dangerous to him and others ! Debi Jobnson~Thank you.