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I am 17 years old and i think i have some sort of erectile dysfunction... my girlfriend and I have quite alot of sex and i get aroused easily when we kiss for extended periods of time but when i go to have sex with her sometimes it just goes flat! and i cant cum even if i do manage to start having sex! i can last 1 or 2 hours no problem and i just dont know what to do! my main concern is that i cant cum... i have had sex with her 10s of times but was only able to cum 2 or 3. i am very worried so please help me!!
Hi, It seems that your problem is more or less psychological as you get full erection. Before going for sex go for foreplay and get your girl friend highly excited. Seeing her highly excited, start doing intercourse and you will get climax and will get ejaculation. Nothing to worry, there is no medical cause. ok and take care.
Regarding the problem of Erectile dysfunction, it is due to decreased blood supply to the penis. Though medications like Sildenafil citrate preparations increase blood flow to penis & maintains erection, it should always be taken after consultation. Have a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, fish, nuts & honey. Avoid stress...practice meditation. Avoid smoking & alcohol. You can also do oil massage of the penis...it increases blood flow & maintains the erection.
Despite these measures, if you experience difficulty, it will be better to rule out other causes like high blood pressure, blood sugar and other local causes that impair blood flow to the genital organ. One more thing...avoid consuming any over the counter medication which claim to improve performance...it may be harmful.
Hi first please tell if you are ok with masturbation? It is normal to get your penis a little soft after a period of hard rigidity. It is normal physiology. you have ejaculated 2-3 times in her vagina or by masturbation. Just try ,relax, have sex as I suggest. You seem to be hurrying everything which sometimes cause anxiety , loss of erection, reduced arousal and no ejaculation. So be very calm, don;t count how many times but have sex single time that is good . Please enter calmly and progress slowly, FOCUSSING ON THE PLEASURE . I am sure you will have good orgasm
Good Luck DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA SEXOLOGIST
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Problems With Erectile Dysfunction. Suggestions?
Hi, It seems that your problem is more or less psychological as you get full erection. Before going for sex go for foreplay and get your girl friend highly excited. Seeing her highly excited, start doing intercourse and you will get climax and will get ejaculation. Nothing to worry, there is no medical cause. ok and take care.