Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I can understand your problem. Especially in Indian culture, the generation gap and the egotism between the mother in law and daughter in law takes away peace of so many families. But I can assure you, these problems are very common to every household across the country, barring some exceptions. You should find out whether your husband loves you and your children. If yes, be relaxed. Your husband is also duty bound to his parents and he cannot overlook them Patience always pays. Enjoy life with your children. They should be real angels.

If you still need my help, please describe the whole problem in detail and post a direct question to me. I shall definitely help you with psychotherapy techniques to over come your problems.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.

Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Your condition is typical for an Indian house wife. So many people do suffer from such plights. Your husband is supposed to support you on this regard at least mentally. Looking after children should not be taken as a burden. Please rethink in that matter. Once you enjoy looking after your children and doing their jobs, 75% of your burden becomes enjoyment. Then you can deal with your mother-in-laws problem. Learn to enjoy adverse circumstances, because life demands more of your positive abilities.

I can help you in this aspect. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.