I'm 38 years old & has had irregular menstrual cycles anywhere from 1-6 months late since my first period at 13 years which of course effects my emotions and moods. Previously, I was put on Tri-Norinyl specifically to regulate my periods & emotions. That worked fine but is now hard to come by. I have been on Norcon for about a year now & it's great for doing what it needs to but the biggest side effect is that it pratically kills my libido as well as severly lessens my vaginal secretions making sex incredibly painful. I want something natural. To keep me in line but not mess with the rest.. What herbal remedies would help?