Simple question. I wanted to rub oils on my pubic area to soften hair, comfort the in-growns (from epilating), and just general relaxation. I m 29 yr. old female, 135lbs, 5 and not on any birth control or medications. I m not concerned about baby protection just now, just curious which oils are safe and which are not. I wouldn t dare use petroleum based or neem, however I did find this carrot oil with primrose, aloe and pecan but also BHT, not sure what that is. Do you think that s safe?