Hello thanks for asking from HCM for your health related queries I can understand your concern. Feelings that sperms are leaking thoruhg urine stream or through penis is seen commonly in Dhat Syndrome. This is nothing but a psychosexual disorder and proper psycho-education results in improvement in condition. So no need to worry about that. Visit a psychiatrist and discuss about this problem. Low libido, inability to sustain erection for long could occur due to erectile dysfunction. In most cases erectile dysfunction occurs because of psychological reasons and good reassurance therapy results in improvement in symptoms. Sometimes medicines like PDE-5 inhibitors as Sildenafil, Tadalafil or Vardenafil etc can be used for poor erection. These medicines help to improve erection when taken about half to one hour before intercourse. So please visit a doctor for help and take proper prescription of these medicines. Hope this helps you. Thanks and take care Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi