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My Bf and I love each other....we are very passionate...foreplay is amazing....and when we kiss....it s like we are in another world...I know ...I know let me get to the point...ok when it s time for penetration...he will be hard and get soft after he enters the vagina....or sometimes before he enters the vagina. ...this has been going on for a long time...I get frustrated but we discuss it...and he says he gets so excited...he doesn t understand it either....I don t know what to try or do.to keep him erect....cause believe me....I have tried...any advice.would be greatly appreciated...he is in his mid 40 s....
Hi Welcome to HCM I have gone through your query, I will try to give you suggestion which will be helpful to you
It is psychological, I would suggest you to relax, you will be fine. The most common cause of ED is anxiety.This may include concerns about getting someone pregnant, not wanting to appear inexperienced, or worrying about using a condom without embarrassment or losing your erection while putting a condom on. Relieving anxiety will solve your problem.
This provisional advice provided by me is based entirely on the input provided to me. I would suggest examination by the doctor.
I hope this suggestion might be of some help to you. Take care.
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Hi Welcome to HCM I have gone through your query, I will try to give you suggestion which will be helpful to you It is psychological, I would suggest you to relax, you will be fine. The most common cause of ED is anxiety.This may include concerns about getting someone pregnant, not wanting to appear inexperienced, or worrying about using a condom without embarrassment or losing your erection while putting a condom on. Relieving anxiety will solve your problem. This provisional advice provided by me is based entirely on the input provided to me. I would suggest examination by the doctor. I hope this suggestion might be of some help to you. Take care.