I have been having a lot of female issues, post coital bleeding with procedures to try to fix this, abnormal paps with cryo, and a swollen lymph node in the groin area. I have excessive hair loss, extreme fatigue, and large mouth ulcers, some painful some not. My doctor wants to try some abx for a 10 and follow up in a month. I am concerned that there may be a problem that is more severe than an infection. What should I do?