my gand mal has had several heart surguries she was recently in icu on life support they say her heart needs a pace maker and she needs a lung transplant , she has blood in her urine and poop and she cant breath good she has an iv given her anti biotices and still she cant get rid of her infection , and now they say they will be letting her go home soon , what is going on they wont tell her or us anything ? shes in pain .