Hello, Welcome to health care magic. I am Dr Alok Sinha, MD Psychiatry from India. I have read your question carefully and understood it. I can understand your concern. I will try my best to answer your query. The condition you are suffering is called Phimosis & Paraphimosis. Apparently the elasticity of your foreskin (prepuce) is limited. In this condition there is pain and difficulty in pulling up the foreskin (known as phimosis). If any how the foreskin goes up with effort, it gets stuck and makes a tight ring around glans (known as paraphimosis). It becomes a difficult exercise to pull the foreskin down. This condition is dangerous, as it may cause gangrene of the penis if left un-attended. Many a time a surgical intervention is required. So it is always better to correct it at the earliest. Since you are sexually active and being troubled with this condition, I suggest you to consult a urologist/surgeon who may examine you and may correct the condition by means of a minor surgery. You will have to abstain from sex for few days after surgery and thereafter you may indulge in sexual act. I hope it answers your query. I wish you a better health.