hello, thanks for using healthcaremagic. When someone ejaculate so early that female partner is still not reach to orgasm, it is called premature ejaculation. As you are young counselling and behavioral changes approach can help I guess. Stop and squeeze technique and master and johnson technique can be learnt from qualified sexologist/psychologist.Couple counseling and sexual techniques like postures can be also found from sexologist. So better to consult doctor with your wife. Another option is medicines like clomipramine which can be taken daily or sometime on required basis after doctor s consultation. Hope I have answered your query, if still any confusion late me know. regards, dr. Chintan Solanki