I am 27 year old married woman.I am experiencing difficulty in penetration.I am not able to let my husband enter me at all because of unbearable burning sensation and pain.I have never inserted anything in my vagina before not even tampons.But about 20 days back I have started dilating myself with my fingers.Initially with one and now I can accommodate two fingers.One finger goes in easily but getting twofingers in is still a bit painful so I do it very gradually,it takes about an hour to insert my index and middle finger together for least painful entry.I never had any sort of bleeding,the sort girls always have when hymen is stretched,not even after I started dilating.I am very confused whether I have vaginismus or it is my extra strong hymen that is causing theentry barrier.A very peculiar thing that I have noticed while dilating each time is that when my finger is about half inch or so inside my vagina there is very tight annular tissue,or a muscle,which seems to be the primary cause entry barrier and burning & pain.It is something like a very tight rubber band which makes that area super tight.Once I gradually cross that rubbery tissue then entry becomes smooth and less painful.AS I keep on pushing my fingers in I feel that tissue or muscle,whatever it is,is gradually expanding.So my question is if that thing is a tissue or my hymen then I am relieved a bit and think then I will not have to see a doc but if that thing is the PC muscle and I am suffering from vaginismus then I will have to seek a medical help.So needed your opinion on this problem before i go to my doctor