Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. In my opinion you should go to the medical facility and convince your husband. The doctors there should have more experience in treating such patients with severe depression. Every doctor come across several kind of depression in their practice period. No two cases can be the same. Attending different cases continuously is their experience. Most of the times hind site also works wonders. Such experienced doctors diagnose as a panel and they can identify your exact problem for sure. Don t worry. Try psychotherapy along with the medication. It works wonders. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.