Hi! I have some red bumps on just my upper thighs that appeared after shaving. They are red an have little black dots in the center. I would usually just think nothing of it but this summer I found out one of my guy friends with I cuddled with in shorts has genital herpes. He only has it on the tip of his penis and we were both wearing shorts when we cuddled. The red bumps/sores do not itch, no pain, no tingling, not clustered (his herpes is), no blister oozing or anything, but I ve been super paranoid I got herpes from him somehow. I ve never been sexually active with him or touched his penis. What is the likelihood this is herpes? Freaking out! Thank you!