i AM 36 AND i have had a tah almost a year ago, but my husband of 19 years also has, chronic epididmal cyst where now both of his testicle has a swelling to them (waiting on the ultrasound report). I have no desire to have sex. I still love my husband, more thani havem ever loved him, to tell you the truth, but i know he has a problem with the sex part of the relationship. please tell me, do i need to tell my dr or wait for his dr to tell him what to do. we have been togrther for 22 years.