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Suggest Treatment For Erectile Dysfuction
My boyfriend & I do not have a good sex life at all. He is in his 40's and I am the first one he's had sex with. (He never had any sex with anyone till he was 45). He can't keep it up at all... He would get hard & then it goes soft after a minute or so even if we didn't start the act yet. And doesn't ejaculate. I can't even have an orgasim because he can't stay hard long enough to do anything. He just told me he masterbates EVERYDAY & has for dozens of years. Maybe he does it too much & then when it comes time for actual he can't perform?
Wed, 28 May 2014
Hi Dear,
masturbation does not lead to erection problem future. and even he did not perform sex till 45 years age and so now actual sex may lead to anxiety and also excitement which leads to erection weaker and so not able to perform sex and ejaculate .
not to worry about that and let after sometimes it will be OK.
consult any psychiatric for sex counselling..
also rule out any hypertension and diabetes ..
masturbation does not lead to erection problem future. and even he did not perform sex till 45 years age and so now actual sex may lead to anxiety and also excitement which leads to erection weaker and so not able to perform sex and ejaculate .
not to worry about that and let after sometimes it will be OK.
consult any psychiatric for sex counselling..
also rule out any hypertension and diabetes ..
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