Hello , I guess you have not tried any treatment yet. If your penis not sufficiently get erection require to enter into vagina, you should have erectile dysfunction. Two treatment options are there. One is medicines in which sildenafil or tadalafil can be used just before intercourse. Before taking it your blood pressure should be checked. If high, avoid sildenafil as far as possible. These medicines can cause headache as side effects normally. Second option is counselling for sex. Couple counseling will be more helpful. Master and johnson technique is taught by qualified sexologist or psychiatrist. If your libido is low, your testosterone level should be checked , and if needed oral or injectable testosterone given.Other options are trazodone and yohimbine. For all of above you should consult a psychiatrist for specific treatment of your choice. Thanks for using healthcaremagic. Hope I have answered your query satisfactorily. Regards, Dr.Chintan Solanki