Hello,
It looks like you have ED with
premature ejaculation.You are suggested to get clinically examined by a GP and counselor so that behavioural techniques and the pause-squeeze technique can be explained. Medications that effectively help in ED are
Sildenafil (Viagra) or Tadalafil (Adcirca, Cialis).
However, to control anxiety, you may need anti anxiety medications. Stay Comfortable with your partner, avoid
nervousness and just stay relaxed. Condoms are helpful. Topical
anesthetic creams and sprays that have a numbing agent, such as
benzocaine or lidocaine are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation.
It is applied to the penis 10 to 15 minutes before sex to reduce sensation and help delay ejaculation. Apply it after consultation & clinical examination by a GP.
Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Nupur K, General & Family Physician