Hi Sir,
Welcome to Health Care Magic
I can certainly understand your concern and worry about your sexual performance, I would like to advise you to undergo simple test ie NPT test (nocturnal penile
tumescence), in which erections occurs in early morning in the sleep which can rule out any problem with your erection.if it is normal, it is unlikely that you have any problem with your erection..then it is likely that you are having some apprehension towards sex . First of all , avoid your stress and worry about sex and children.Being a
psychiatrist , I can advise you some simple tips like....Be relaxed before sex, spend time with foreplay which stimulates the production of nitric oxide NO, to sustain your erection for long time ....And you can start some antianxiety drugs like SSRI s ie escitalopram which helps in reducing your anxiety and worry, avoid alcohol and smoking if any, maintain adequate weight, try to engage yourself in some physical activity like exercises which helps in production of BDNF ie brain derived neurotropic factor, that keeps you active and stress free through out the day. If these measures does not work, you can start
sildenafil to improve your erections. you can try other natural drugs called DHEA (DihydroEpiandrosterone which can improve tour
testosterone levels, L-
Arginine to increse your NO production.finally, there are other options like
penile implants , which is an OP procedure , takes about an hour, vaccum constriction devices, pump with a band on it. The ultimate option is vascular
reconstructive surgery .You can consult your psychiatrist for further details
Post your further questions if any, I will available to take up your follow up questions
Thank you