Hi there,



I really need help. i'm newly married & still have not made love with my husband. i am so scared of the pain. we've tried but i can't believe the pain! i hate that i have this problem because my self esteme is so low. my husband has been so supportive but it''s starting to really effect him now.

i just want to be able to do it. but my legs get tight & I won't let him in! I feel worse knowing that everyone in the world can do this but me. i've been to councilling but that didn't help. i've tried hypno thearpy but that didn't work either. my husband won't come near me if i drink because it puts him off. i really feel so down that i feel so useless. everyone in the world can do it so why am i so fearful?? i'm 26 years old. this isn't normal. please help me becuase i can't feel like this anymore