I have a 2 year old son who has had a lump on the right of his neck which I noticed 8 months ago.from 1 year ago he has constantly had chest infections,viral infections,ear infections,his feeding has deterorated,hes pale and is currently on an inhaler.ive had a 2 week referral to check for cancer in which no test where run just a dr looked and felt the lump in which I was told its a swollen lymph gland,in which is now harder and slightly bigger,i was told it was benign and his eating habits were down to my influence even though I have 4 other children and have experience to stubborn picky eaters who aren t so picky anymore.i feel there may well be an underlying problem should I push this