Suggest Treatment For Itching And Hair Loss In Frontal Area

Hi, I am 33 years old and for the past I would say 2 years I have been experience itching and thinning of hair. The area that is thinning where noticable is in the front of the hair line in the middle front area ( like where a widow s peak would be) I have tried all sorts of over the container medicated shampoos. None have helped in the thinning in the front hairline. When looking at the scalp in the mirror close up I do notice the scalp in the front hair line looks scaly and it seems to not want to exfoliate The weird thing is I never see white flakes in hair or anything until I do something like - when I put peppermint oil on it the first time and let it sit for 15mins. After washing and drying my hair I saw small white salt like specks. but whenI did the pepermint oil again another day I saw nothing The other notieable thing is my hair gets really oily really quickly and if I do no wash it and let it stay oily more hair will fall out ( people have suggested not to wash it as often and I didn t wash it for a long time but I did notice a lot of Hair was falling out that way I and more itchy. When I put like a oil treatment on it as I have read that is good that makes it more itchy. Does anyone have any tips on how to solve thiss. There are no red spots doesnt look like anykind of infection and no big white flake nothing really except for itchy and loss ofhair in front my main thing is to get the thinning infront under control before it gettng really out of hand. I have always had really great hair and thick hair and never had any issues until this itchness started and tons of shedding of hair and thinning in front. I am careful of wht type ofpoducts I use and I do not use toxic chemicals thanks so much Next day after shampooing it gets greasyreally quickly. The texture has change as well.