Hi,
Noted your history of a lump below hte ear that started swelling up, under treatment of the same ,started bleeding, pain in abdomen to right lower side, has history of dyspareunia that is pain during sex and so on.
All your history is suggestive that you have two different issues:
The swelling can be a lymph node or an
infected cyst and needs its own treatment.
Pain in lower abdomen with associated symptoms are suggestive of a need for further proper investigations as follows:
Consult a Gynecologist to have per-vaginal examination along with trans-vaginal and abdominal Ultrasound to see for the cause and get treated accordingly.
If the pain is due to
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease that is PID then medical management may help for a cure.
If there is any other problem like
Ovarian cyst, salpingitis,
appendicitis and so on then you will need a
surgical treatment.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. T. Chandrakant, ENT and General Surgeon