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Dr. Andrew Rynne

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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

i am a 41 year old male,who had intercourse the first time at 15 yrs.i knew from that first experience that i have pre-mature ejac.it has never gotten any better since. ive used drugs and alcohol to try to block,or numb the sensation,however that is a two edged sword,however ive always been able to get an erection.i can at times,not be able to stop climamax,after maybe 40 sec. into penatration. isthere anything that could help me,this has been a huge problem for,and i know it has affected my confidence,and my self-asteem.
Wed, 9 Dec 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I don't think your premature ejaculation problem is physical. First or second sexual intercourse with strangers or with woman you know, could lead to premature ejaculation due to the fact that, that was the first time. Everyone has performance anxiety. You could have worried about the first incident and wished hard the second incident should not happen. That sort of hard wishing increased your anxiety and apprehension about second attempt and you failed there too. Second failure happened because of apprehension.

The apprehension further eroded your confidecnce and you started worrying about it again and again and anxiety was created. Now because of the anxiety, your third attempt was also failure. It just kept on going and going. Your premature ejaculation is due to anxiety and apprehension. Please set your mind. No two occasions are the same. You may require assistance from a psychologist. Please consult a psychologist.

If you still need my assistance in this regard, please use this link. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Please remember to describe the whole problem with full detail.

Hope this answers your query. Please feel free to post follow up queries. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck. Take care.
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I don t think your premature ejaculation problem is physical. First or second sexual intercourse with strangers or with woman you know, could lead to premature ejaculation due to the fact that, that was the first time. Everyone has performance anxiety. You could have worried about the first incident and wished hard the second incident should not happen. That sort of hard wishing increased your anxiety and apprehension about second attempt and you failed there too. Second failure happened because of apprehension. The apprehension further eroded your confidecnce and you started worrying about it again and again and anxiety was created. Now because of the anxiety, your third attempt was also failure. It just kept on going and going. Your premature ejaculation is due to anxiety and apprehension. Please set your mind. No two occasions are the same. You may require assistance from a psychologist. Please consult a psychologist. If you still need my assistance in this regard, please use this link. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Please remember to describe the whole problem with full detail. Hope this answers your query. Please feel free to post follow up queries. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. Take care.