I'm done with second divorce put both ladies thru school and both have used my job as a little lotto! Now my baby chance is 9 now and I've not seen him in almost 10 months and her new husband sends me stuff like ( I'm his daddy now and some of the most horrific texts you've seen but she moves and moves and I'm out of money and I've left work on short term disability cause I can't focus and I hurt and hurt but this is just a inkling of what she does and all I want is to see my son as the divorce decree says? I changed his diapers and coach every sport he played until the last year ! I'm going nuts an I have an older son who needs me also that I have custody of after the state fails 3 previous times to give me custody and a 100,000 later she pays no child support and I'm out of means and I've spent all I've ever earned and I've never drew a dime of any help , yet I can't find any answers that are positive? This hump I can't get past it seems but if anybody ever deserved some it's me I've paid in 3x my ss already and I didn't come from money , I worked my butt off and took nothing and I can't understand why the lack of support from any agency ?