I am twice divorced, had a date with a girl who liked me; we set up a date but she stood me up. I asked out another girl, just for coffee. she sounded interested. asked her again -- she said she would think about it -- what is there to THINK about? it was a squirrelly way to say No . I am so lonely I want to die. where do I find love? I m 58 but look 40. My 2nd wife was 30. she still loves me, and i love her, but her demands are too great (cut ties with my younger children). I don t know what to do anymore. Is anyone there? YYYY@YYYY