Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Stress is part of life and every human being is capable to come out of stress ful situations and lead a normal life. Some stress causing circumstances never change, but then people change according to circumstances. Sometimes, the stress reason itself may change. Your girl friend is living within stress and worrying about stress. She needs to come out of the now familiar situation. Meditation and psychotherapy should be very effective. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.