Hi, Thanks for posting in HCM. I understand your concern. Erectile dysfunction is more of psychological problem than physical one. Why you are having this problem is because of anxiety. It is a temporary problem which can be overcome and is experienced by many like you who are newly married during early part of their family life. You need to build more confidence, which will help you to perform better. The following measures should help you to overcome the problem what you are facing. 1. Fore play is very important to have a good sexual activity. If you have good foreplay, you can enjoy the sex with good erection and ejaculation. 2. Eat healthy food rich in antioxidants. Relax and have good sleep and stress free life. You can also practice meditation to control your emotions and anxiety. These factors also play a role in achieving erection. 3. You can use initially tadalfil tablet. They are used to treat erectile dysfunction and help in achieving good erection. As you gain more confidence, you can stop using it. 4. In addition if necessary, you can try vascular ring and vacuum pump, which would also help in achieving good erection. Relax and have a good time. Hope the information provided would be helpful. All the best.