I am 64 years old and I used to have a very strong sex drive, multi-orgasmic, until I married my 74 year old husband who is addicted to Pornography. Now, I am completely asexual. Is there anything I can do to get my sex drive back? I can have organisms if he sucks on my breasts, or fingers me. That happens only once every two weeks, and it seems like it is a chore or a lot of work for him to make that happen. I can t do it myself, only after I have had 2 -4 with him, and then I can do it myself once more.