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Suggest Ways To Deal With A Broken Relationship
I have been in a seven year relationship only to find out three months ago that my boyfriend was secretively seeing someone else for two years. We (him and I and the other woman) are heavily into working out and I am more of a cross fit woman and the other woman is a power lifter. We broke up as a result of this and I am emotionally and mentally crushed as I love him deeply. I know he is still seeing the other woman however he calls me three times a day, wakes me with a call and texts me about twenty times a day telling me how much he loves me and misses me only to find out after his call at the end of the day he goes to her house or she comes to his. Why would a man have this kind of behavior and what should I do? Besides the original bedrail I feel as he thinks that I am stupid and controllable, why else would he behave like this? I am lost. Please set me straight. I can not rap my brain around this whole issue.
Mon, 24 Nov 2014
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it may sound a bit harsh but the fact is that HE IS JUST SEXUALLY EXPLOITING YOU COZ HE FOUND U A VERY EASY PREY...yes men r like this,its in the genes..." women seek emotions n use sex to gain emotions from the partner " whereas " men seek sex and use emotions to gain sex from the partner " ....the more u let him use you,the more harm u will do TO YOUR OWN SELF RESPECT and if it continue for bit more your self esteem will be damaged to unreparable extent and then you will be all finished from inside like a body made of just flesh n no soul...he is having the best time of his life having 2 women at the same time but god is a great equaliser,he shall have to pay back for spoiling a honest/loyal/sensitiveloving princess like you...you r too good to deserve a heartless sex maniac like him...DONT INSULT YOURSELF BY BEING WITH HIM FOR EVEN ONE MORE SECOND MY DEAR....you deserve the best n not the worst....get rid of that cruel man n move on ull find many more beautiful souls alonh the way...plz dont hesitate to share anything u want..ill be waiting for your reply princess...take care....dr rahul rathee !!!!
it may sound a bit harsh but the fact is that HE IS JUST SEXUALLY EXPLOITING YOU COZ HE FOUND U A VERY EASY PREY...yes men r like this,its in the genes..." women seek emotions n use sex to gain emotions from the partner " whereas " men seek sex and use emotions to gain sex from the partner " ....the more u let him use you,the more harm u will do TO YOUR OWN SELF RESPECT and if it continue for bit more your self esteem will be damaged to unreparable extent and then you will be all finished from inside like a body made of just flesh n no soul...he is having the best time of his life having 2 women at the same time but god is a great equaliser,he shall have to pay back for spoiling a honest/loyal/sensitiveloving princess like you...you r too good to deserve a heartless sex maniac like him...DONT INSULT YOURSELF BY BEING WITH HIM FOR EVEN ONE MORE SECOND MY DEAR....you deserve the best n not the worst....get rid of that cruel man n move on ull find many more beautiful souls alonh the way...plz dont hesitate to share anything u want..ill be waiting for your reply princess...take care....dr rahul rathee !!!!
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