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Suggest Ways To Improve The Sexual Relationship

I have been married 32 years. I Love my wife very I have been married 32 years and love my wife very much but our Sex life as always been disappointing. We Had sex four times this year. We jusjtt don't connect especially now that we are older I thought it would get better after our kids were grown and gone but its gotten worse. Any advice
Thu, 2 Jun 2016
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Hi Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC..

I have gone through your query and can understand your concern...
Decreased sex desire is a common problem in elderly age. I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive. Also try to know that whether she is disturbed for anything if yes than help her to getting out of it.
Remember that sex is in our mind & not in body or any organ. If you make up your mind to prepare for sex you get repeated desire for it. That is up to you.
Tension free mind without any anxiety gets stimulation to parasympathetic system gets more arousal for sex. You should try foreplay and rub vagina also than also go for fingering and some other tricks to getting her excited.

You may try different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.

Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
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Suggest Ways To Improve The Sexual Relationship

Hi Welcome to HEALTHCARE MAGIC.. I have gone through your query and can understand your concern... Decreased sex desire is a common problem in elderly age. I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive. Also try to know that whether she is disturbed for anything if yes than help her to getting out of it. Remember that sex is in our mind & not in body or any organ. If you make up your mind to prepare for sex you get repeated desire for it. That is up to you. Tension free mind without any anxiety gets stimulation to parasympathetic system gets more arousal for sex. You should try foreplay and rub vagina also than also go for fingering and some other tricks to getting her excited. You may try different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.