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Suggest Ways To Reduce The Tightness In Vagina While Having Sex For The First Time

Hello, im about 18 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 6 months going on sex free. Obviously thats not a bad thing, but the problem is that we can t make it work for our future desires. He can only get half way in so about 3 inches (he is 6in) He describes to me that it feels like there is a wall in the way and its impossible to break through. I know thats the hymen, but its not popping at all when we try, he cant get it all the way in. We even do warm ups before hand, with the 1 finger, 2 fingers etc: to open it up. Hes even tried going harder pushing it inside and slower but its still not going all the way in and the wall is still in the way, no matter how far he pushes in. I can fit tampons inside me, but he cant fit himself inside. We have tried lube and different strategies but nothing seems to be working for us. Help? :c
Wed, 25 Nov 2015
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Hi,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
I understand your concern.
It appears by your description that you might be having 'thickened hymen'. Such type is seen in few people because the membrane is thicker than normal, which would not break easily and resists during penetration.
Ideally, the hymen membrane is thin and breaks during first few times during intercourse on penetration.
Kindly get yourself examined by a Gynecologist and if necessary, you might have to get the hymen removed by means of surgical intervention. Then it would not have resistance during penetration during intercourse.
Hope the information provided would be helpful.
All the best.
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Suggest Ways To Reduce The Tightness In Vagina While Having Sex For The First Time

Hi, Thanks for posting in HCM. I understand your concern. It appears by your description that you might be having thickened hymen . Such type is seen in few people because the membrane is thicker than normal, which would not break easily and resists during penetration. Ideally, the hymen membrane is thin and breaks during first few times during intercourse on penetration. Kindly get yourself examined by a Gynecologist and if necessary, you might have to get the hymen removed by means of surgical intervention. Then it would not have resistance during penetration during intercourse. Hope the information provided would be helpful. All the best.