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Takes Long During Intercourse Or Oral Sex To Cum, Partner Loses Patience, Get Cum Quickly On Masturbation. What Could Be Wrong?
it takes me really long during intercourse to cum and also during oral sex taking up to an hour sometimes even more. my girlfriend some time can t go for that long because it starts to hurt her. during oral sex she often cant even get me to cum it just hurts her emotionaly ends up her crying. i can cum just fine by masterbating takes around 5mins. whats wrong with me?
Dear , As you told about your problem I don't think there is any functional abnormality. You have not told your age anyhow . I suggest you should make less physical contacts with your girlfriend and try to get involved with her in other tasks. Make herself prepared and comfortable before having intercourse. Start with foreplay and give her time before starting any penetration. Show affinity towards herself & try to make her attracted towards sexual activity in a healthy way. Hope this will help you.
Any questions Welcome.
Regards Dr. Kumar
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Takes Long During Intercourse Or Oral Sex To Cum, Partner Loses Patience, Get Cum Quickly On Masturbation. What Could Be Wrong?
Dear , As you told about your problem I don t think there is any functional abnormality. You have not told your age anyhow . I suggest you should make less physical contacts with your girlfriend and try to get involved with her in other tasks. Make herself prepared and comfortable before having intercourse. Start with foreplay and give her time before starting any penetration. Show affinity towards herself & try to make her attracted towards sexual activity in a healthy way. Hope this will help you. Any questions Welcome. Regards Dr. Kumar