Hey Judy.
From your detailed history & description, it appears you have NOTHING to worry about. Why are you so scared?
Should you wish to share more detailed history privately or ask more soul searching queries in discretion, please use our 'ask-a doctor/specialist' feature & you may get in touch with mois directly.
As for
VDRL, it is a screening test & gives you an 'all encompassing' feature but is more a 'general' test. It could be positive if pregnant, long standing infections, fevers etc & is not very reliable for including a diagnosis.
A TPHA done together with a VDRL is more accurate when read in combination & again one could have false positives or negatives.
If both are negative, given your history, nothing to worry about. But for best results, consult a dermatolgist /venreologist nearest you & you could again take the help of this website for addresses!
Cheers & Wish you continued good health! Do Practice
safe sex always!
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
Dermatologist, Cosmetologist, Venereologist
Vikram Hospital, Bangalore