The man and I have been dating on and off for years (20),We are Both open and free in the bedroom .always have been. Total chemistry. The weekly taping of me was eventually replaced by his porn flavor of the week, I was no longer a key playerbut had been reduced back round girl. Now when he would disappear for days I assumed he was cheating. When I got defensive about his disappearing he then proceeded to disappear for good. The Man that I have been dating and loveing for years completely checked out without a goodbye, Do I contact him? Cry on my own?